tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6003152552208010938.post4575850099872042867..comments2023-05-02T06:51:47.972-05:00Comments on Winedale Porchscape: HowdyBabette Fraser Halehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16801971149305731956noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6003152552208010938.post-91683244447339729642009-06-08T02:22:07.280-05:002009-06-08T02:22:07.280-05:00fascinating topic and you did a great job stirring...fascinating topic and you did a great job stirring my mind. I learned to give a firm handshake from someone who trained me to be an Avon door to door sales girl when I was in my teens. I have a huge palm and have always done it, years before I ever was in business.<br /><br />My father was like the third guy -- at his funeral there were many stories about his imposing mitts and intimidating ways. And unlike your third guy, he did not go for gentling his clasp. Many a potential boyfriend for my two older sisters were scared off just from the power he exerted in his hands and my father probably loved that. By the time my dating years came along, he chose a new method to make suitors feel unwelcome. He wouldn't even face them... It was like being ignored by Mount Everest!Sydneyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10085490655524570481noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6003152552208010938.post-2780385005093292122009-05-26T13:48:58.141-05:002009-05-26T13:48:58.141-05:00Interesting observation, Sizzie, about the intimid...Interesting observation, Sizzie, about the intimidation aspect. Quite possible.Babette Fraser Halehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16801971149305731956noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6003152552208010938.post-6440978523624358592009-05-25T10:50:54.347-05:002009-05-25T10:50:54.347-05:00Good observations, Bdogs. I agree with what has b...Good observations, Bdogs. I agree with what has been said here and add that the eye contact that goes along with the handshake informs me about the person. Or maybe not the person, but how that person feels about that moment. (was limp guy intimdated by One for example) If the handshake is accompanied by firm eye contact with me and a verbal greeting it means a lot. If the handshaker is looking over to see the next person in line and ignoring me, even though we are shaking hands, I am put off. Good topic. Thanks for it.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6003152552208010938.post-57338372269793334882009-05-22T14:51:37.666-05:002009-05-22T14:51:37.666-05:00Correct address for handshakes:
http://en.wikiped...Correct address for handshakes:<br /><br />http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/HandshakeTexas Legacy Ladyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12681772745597508315noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6003152552208010938.post-80698216520272942622009-05-22T14:48:03.500-05:002009-05-22T14:48:03.500-05:00I do think handshakes tell a lot about the person ...I do think handshakes tell a lot about the person offering their hand. At least I feel they give you an impression about that person. <br /><br />If it is weak, I think of the person giving it as weak or that they really aren't interested in greeting you. If it is a strong handshape I perceive the person as welcoming and interested in you. A damp handshake is definitely what I would call nasty. <br /><br />In Texas, I think of a handshake as a deal maker...a handshake and the deal is made. It's a Texas way of life. <br /><br />I've read that handshakes may have had a beginning as a gesture of peace where people were showing they were not holding weapons. A handshake can signify so many things. <br /><br />The following is a rather interesting read-<br />http://www.lifescript.com/Soul/Self/Growth/A_Guide_To_Proper_Handshake_Etiquette.aspx?trans=1&du=1&gclid=CLe02vbU0JoCFQqenAod2X8L3w&ef_id=1350:3:c_eb55865f74a33d7386731033cadd2094_2540998805:Ttldfko-KR4AAAX0OCMAAAAH:20090522193132Texas Legacy Ladyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12681772745597508315noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6003152552208010938.post-33999713912391028582009-05-21T13:56:00.664-05:002009-05-21T13:56:00.664-05:00I am always interested in handshakes too - I hate ...I am always interested in handshakes too - I hate those limp ones which make you feel you are shaking a lettuce leaf. I honestly don't know whether they are any indication of character or not. I often wonder.The Weaver of Grasshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13947971556343746883noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6003152552208010938.post-59606124595858623222009-05-21T07:51:52.250-05:002009-05-21T07:51:52.250-05:00I think you gleaned quite a lot... handshakes are ...I think you gleaned quite a lot... handshakes are all part of who we are, eren't they?Jinksyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01686101468214361004noreply@blogger.com